“I must learn to love the fool in me the one who feels too much, talks too much, takes too many chances, wins sometimes and loses often, lacks self-control, loves and hates, hurts and gets hurt, promises and breaks promises, laughs and cries.”
There was a day in 1989 I met a great man we went out on a date.
4 months later in 1989 I found out I was pregnant.
Then in February of 1990 I married this great man that I met in 1989 to me he was my savior and I was standing in front of the priest and I was 6 months pregnant.
In May 1990 I was blessed with a healthy baby girl that filled my heart with happiness and joy.
In June of 1992 I went to the hospital and had another beautiful daughter and in December of 1995 I was again blessed with a beautiful son, without his father being there by my side I, laid in the hospital and I cried. Two days later after my son was born my husband held our son for the first time in his arms.
For the next few years our marriage wasn’t so great but we stuck together for the children’s sake.
In 1999 our marriage again was on the line I went to work and wasn’t home a-lot of times.
In 2004 my husband said, to me “go find someone else go on with your life, I also can’t accept the family where you’ve come from, I’m also seeing another woman that I guess we’re compatible in a lot of ways and I don’t love you any more, and I want my DIVORCE”.
I went 3 months crying a-lot, days and nights knowing that he didn’t love me and what he was doing to me wasn’t right, So I gave up and went out one night, I realized that without him my life isn’t over….I still have my family especially my siblings and friends to go on with my life, like my husband wanted me to do, and after this I knew we was through.
Then after 4 months he decides he wants me back but I can’t do it now after what he has said, and done we are no more together as one.
We had some good times, we had a lot of bad, but I will never forget the good times we had.
If things hadn’t happened like it did in 2004 the Municipal Director wouldn’t be soon saying you both are now FREE!!!